Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Limping like a lady

We were counting down the days at the Valdez house for Ava to get her cast off. She was such a good patient and didn't cry at all during the procedure. However, as soon as they took it off she started crying hysterically from the stiffness and her open sores. Fortunately her sores from the cast are healing nicely. The doctor told me that she could possibly limp for up to 3 months. She refused to walk the first 2 days it was off and continued scooting. She finally started wobbling around a few days following the cast removal. What has been alarming to me though is that her left foot is at about an 80 degree angle pointing outwards when she walks. This is causing her to walk extremely slow, trip more, and not be able to walk down stairs (or a curb) without falling. I called the doctor and the earliest orthopedics can see her is early next week. We will find out if this will correct itself, if she needs physical therapy, the cast put back on, or a brace. We'll keep you posted.
What a trooper!
The worst of the rash was on the back of the leg and the front of her foot.

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Closure

Bdad passed away June 25th and Ava still talks about him almost everyday. His funeral was this past week at Arlington National Cemetery. It was wonderful to finally have closure, celebrate his full life with my family, and tell our favorite stories about him. I still miss him. Ava will bring me a toy and say, "Bdad liked to play with this one with me". It is really hard for me to think she won't remember what a wonderful connection she had with him and how she made his face light up. They were kindred spirits. Their bond was strong for several reasons. Ava was named after his wife, Ava looks just like me as a baby, and Ava and Bdad brought out the best in each other. Bdad hung out with the sweet cuddly Ellie and would be amused to see what a wild child she is turning out to be. I am so thankful for all the pictures and videos we have of Bdad and the girls together so they can see what a remarkable man he was. My mom has also documented and written down many of BDads stories from his earlier years that we will be able to share with the girls later. Dr. Bruce Bennett has left a great legacy that will make our family proud for many generations.
One of my favorites of Bdad and Ava playing
Bdad's great granddaughters
Jon and Chris- Bdad's grandsons (missing Zach)
My Sister Betsy
The current youngest in the family, Stefan (Betsy's son)
Betsy and her boys
BMom's sister - Aunt Jean and Uncle Bud
Bob helping us hold down the fort
Uncle Dan
Beautiful day
We actually followed Bdad in the hertz all the way from Dumfries by coincidence.
Aunt Ellen and Uncle Bill were lifesavers in supervising the girls during the memorial service so that I could put my full attention to Bdad.
They are a handful! Janice and My Dad came and helped as well during the service and burial.
stunning chapel
Full Air Force Honors.
Being taken to the burial plot. We walked behind the officers and it was so rewarding.
My miraculous Grandparents.
guy talk at the reception
Ava had a good time with Poppy. You can tell they are two birds of a feather.
Aunt Jeannnie and Mom with Uncle Bud and Aunt Jean
Some of the family
Warme side of the family

Reconnecting with our "people"

The upside of funerals is reconnecting with long distance family. My sister and her four children flew in from Utah, my Aunt, Uncle, and Cousin came in from Texas, and Greg's Aunt from Washington state was in town as well. We stayed at the Valdez house during the week since GiGi's house was packed to the brim. Nanny spoiled us every morning and let me sleep in a bit and then would help me get the girls ready for the day. What a great way to start of the day. It was a fun yet exhausting week.
We started the week with a weekend at the Lake Anna Lakehouse
Ava supervising Pop Pops fixing the boat
Nanny had to tow the boat with her paddle boat- funny scene to watch!
Grandma Bath and Richard came down from Maryland
You can tell that the cast did not slow Ava down at all
Aunt Pat has a lakehouse close to the Valdez lakehouse
Anna and Ellie Bean
The Bath ladies! Great catching up with Aunt Carol
Grandma training Bean in walking
Carol and Grandma B!
Ava still the Skipper of the boat
Group shot
checking in on my dream house...
She was worn out from the day.
This picture makes me laugh so much. Ava is making one of my annoyed faces and Ellie is delighted to be annoying her (a Greg face). It is funny that Ellie has so many Greg mannerisms even though she is not around him.
Logan schooling Ava on how to play the Nintendo DS
Heidi was so sweet sharing with Ava and having lots of patience with her.
Ok after reviewing this pictures, I realize that I have to retire Ellie's shirt. It is a 6 - 12 months shirt that I just couldn't let go because it is one of my favorites. Look at that sweet pot belly though :)
Logan the conductor of the Valdez choo choo train
Uncle Dan and Stefan
He is the cutest little peanut
embracing her Mexican heritage
Chris embraced the chaos and was a huge help all week
civilized girls
boys will be boys
Ellie gets jealous easily...
Nixie used her many years of experience as a big sister to really help out
This was a wild wagon ride
baby race!
Cheers GiGi!
Ava styled by Nixie
cutie patootie Heidi
GiGi and GrandBob baby time
Dinners were never dull
Several trips to the park!
Stefan was like a little fish moving quick! Such a sweet little guy